My Q and A – Baby is 13 Days Old

By Andrea Guzman

1. How long can I leave my bottle of breast milk out?

This is what I found out online: Freshly pumped breast milk can be kept for 10 hours at room temperatures below 72 degrees Fahrenheit. I also know that I can't keep that breast milk in the refrigerator for more than 5 days.

2. Why does my baby's belly button bleed?

I read that this is normal, and that most babies belly buttons bleed after they are born. But I also read that you need to constantly clean it with rubbing alcohol, which I have been doing. If it bleeds for too long, you are supposed to contact your doctor. The thing is to make sure that it is not infected. My girlfriend told me her baby's umbilical cord fell off after only two weeks. This kind of makes me concerned, because my baby's umbilical cord is still on there a little bit, and it hasn't dried up totally and fallen off. Standby, I will talk to my doctor about all of this at the next appointment.

3. What temperature is the bath water supposed to be?

90-120 degrees F; But my question is, how do you tell what it is without a thermometer? I read that without a bath thermometer, just test the water on your forearm. So far I have had no problems, my baby loves to take a bath. I think that she thinks she is back swimming in my amniotic fluid. (ha ha ha)

4. Is it okay for me to start breast pumping?

I asked my baby's pediatrician this question, and told her I was pumping once a day, and she told me to immediately stop. She said it would mess up my "flow" of milk. I am not sure what that meant, but I am still pumping once a day. Sometimes my breasts are so sore, that I have to pump to relieve some pressure off them!

5. When can I have sex again?

The standard answer is 6 weeks, but I have been reading several online Forums like M2B's own; "Mommies Place", and they give various answers from 2-3 weeks or less! Of course like anything, I am sure it is best to consult with your doctor. The reason I have this question is because these hormones-I think from the breastfeeding-are driving me crazy. Also, I truly miss the intimacy with my husband. Again, so many sacrifices that you make in order to have a baby. But like all the sacrifices, they are worth it. So far, I have not had sex. : (

Andrea Guzman, LMFT

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Your Walking Baby

By Simon Brice

Well if you though crawling created problems...a walking baby is something else!

Nothing compares to watching your babies first few dodgering steps, arms flailing and then plonk! as he or she lands on their bum. From then on you are always wondering where she is. No longer the tell tell slap slap sound of her hands on the floor. No, now a more stealthy arrival.

Safety is paramount once your baby becomes mobile. Almost sure as eggs are eggs your baby will try to improve each day. Try and go faster each day. Climb higher each day. And reach higher each day. Soon you will find all breakables skyhigh or locked away. Work surfaces become a feature for a couple of fingers desperately trying to grab whatever is reachable. Stairs prior to stair gates will be scaled. Cupboards will joyfully be opened and shut. Items removed then misplaced. Saucepans will litter the floor. Washing machines will be emptied...the list goes on.

In order to combat the new walking demon kitting your house out with baby safety gadgets is a must. Stair gates, safety gates, safety door jammers(very highly recommended - stops their fingers getting caught in a door), cupboard safety locks and protectors, cable tidys etc etc. The list is endless. Depending on room a small pen area or a travel cot to plonk your baby at times of emergency, eg. going to the toilet in piece without worrying where the babies gone or what they are getting up to.

Once your house has been converted to a safety haven for your joyous moving disaster then you will be able to relax that little bit more and maybe enjoy the odd phone call or television programme without worrying as much.

It's always worth checking out the safety gadgets available as this can also highlight other areas of danger. Clip on plug socket covers and oven safety catches for example.

I did tell you the list went on and on.

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Advice on Buying Maternity Wear

Just because you are 8 months pregnant with a stomach out to there, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t still care about your appearance. In fact, when you’re feeling hormonal and down in the dumps, a good shopping trip for stylish maternity wear may be exactly what you need.

General advice:

The first instinct pregnant mothers have when shopping is to go directly for something that is large and baggy. Please avoid this as maternity clothing that is layered or has bold prints or horizontal stripes will only make you seem bigger. Everyone knows that black is slimming so if you want to appear smaller, go for maternity clothing in one solid color. Don’t compromise your style. If you find maternity clothing too plain, try going to plus size stores or shop at your usual haunts but buy a bigger size. This will allow you to go for styles that you would normally have preferred pre-pregnancy.

Maternity wear budget:

Be careful with your budget though, as you have to remember you won’t be that big for that long! If you want to save money, borrow other people’s maternity clothing. Most mothers’ keep their maternity clothing in case of future pregnancies or as a keepsake and they’ll probably be happy to let their used maternity clothing be used by you. Or, you could try yard sales or consignment shops for a good bargain.

Shoes;

If you are well into your pregnancy, you don’t want to buy high heels. Flat shoes or flip flops are the best way to go. If you must have heels in your shoe, try kitten heels as they are not that high and will be comfortable to wear.

Maternity formal wear:

The best kind of formal wear won’t hide your shape. Be proud of your new pregnant shape and show it off. Formal wear for expectant mothers can be found in suits or dresses. The most common colors are black or midnight blue as it is one solid color that is slimming to all shapes. The best maternity dresses are empire cut, which means it is cut right under the bust, to provide maximum room for movement of your growing belly. Maternity suits are also alternative and very flattering to those who are four to five months pregnant.

Maternity swim wear:

If you are only four to six months pregnant, you can probably get away with going to plus sized stores and purchasing larger swimsuits as maternity swim wear. In this way, you will get a greater range of swim wear to choose from without having to change your style. Maternity swim wear is not readily available all year round so make sure to head straight to your favorite maternity clothing store when the sun comes out if you’re planning a tropical holiday during the winter.

Whatever your shape or size, you are bound to find maternity wear for any occasion! Don’t just stick to the boring styles you often see in maternity stores; be inventive when mixing and matching to create your own maternity wear style!

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